You throw your hands in the air and allow your partner to determine if you stay together or not.Ĥ. You allow anger to dominate and publicly try to humiliate and destroy your partner and their paramour, all the while using God and religion as your justification.ģ. You are not even in a relationship at this level, because you're now reached the same level as Krisna, Buddha, Jesus, Mother Theresa!Ģ. You are probably not involved in a relationship at this level because you've reached true bliss and illumination.ġ7. Your probably not in a relationship because you're motivated to dedicate yourself to the benefit of life rather than for specific individuals.ġ6. Your level of forgiveness knows no bounds, so if your partner wants to stay, then you embrace them without malice (all without looking foolish, but looking strong and healthy) even to the point of reaching out to your partner's paramour.ġ5. Realizing that you did nothing to bring this on, you begin to evaluate your partners issues more closely and ultimately offer them some help, guidance and the option of release.ġ4. all the while feeling torn between your understanding of your partner's perspective, their paramour's and your's (you continue to try to find harmġ3. You try to imbue meaning into this incident, and you set out to understand why this has happened. You allow this act be the answer to the question of whether you two should be together and you quickly adjust to find the one for you while maintaining the rest of your life. now you realize that you know them a little more.ġ1. In the wake of this indiscretion, you quickly realize that this is who this person truly is at the moment and you appreciate that the true individual is now before you.
As you fight back thoughts of suicide you ultimately feel dejected, yet validated because everyone cheats and you know you do not deserve to be happy.ġ0.